A good state of mind is self-created
we often can not change the opinions of others, can change just by ourselves. A bad life is not someone else’s sin, but rather we become bad mood. To make life changed for the better The Golden Key is not in the hands of others, to give up our resentments and sigh, good life is within reach. We wanted a good life subjectively, but objectively speaking, there is no good life, the reason is always to wait for others to improve life.
Do not expect others to change their own lives to do the masters.
2, the most important thing is why today’s heart
painful regret for the loss of the current mood, so why worry for the inexplicable suicide out of fear. past gone forever, no matter how regret is useless.’s future still elusive, then how will concerns about the empty sad. Today, heart, and now people do today, but it is real, is also feeling OK. Of course, past experience to summarize, to prevent future risk, this is wisdom.
yesterday is gone and tomorrow has not arrived. this is real.
3, their heartache Why should only their own pain treatment
regret the loss of mood. occasionally vent about the complaints, but also very necessary. But the endless complaining about it would only create trouble but to show to others their own impotence. complaint is a deadly negative attitude, if their complaints into bad habits, then life would be dark, no state of mind not only their own good, but others have bad luck followed.
complained that no good, optimistic, the most important thing.
4, intention to do their own things to do in life is so short
, how can there be thought to be wasted? wise philosopher once said: “Some people call me the street, I even went straight, and did not want to know that this silly person! “We are not going to hurt people, do not be around other people’s criticism, or in accordance with their wishes, the first down-learn the skills to say. especially in youth, to go all out to learn skills, not points heart.
5, do not always make life difficult for themselves with their own
learn to appreciate their own, they will have to obtain the golden key to happiness. appreciate that they are not insular, appreciate that they are not conceited, appreciate that they are not self-satisfaction, enjoy themselves more not rest on its laurels h to some of his own self-confidence, their own that is pleasant to themselves for a look of smiling, happy life does not need to worry?!
often to their own festivals, learned to look for feelings of pleasure.
6, do not chase the glory
secular life looking for a recognition of what other people will never lost his joy and happiness. vulgar comments will annihilate their own personality and make their own secular pointing loss. for the money Money will own disowned for the right to make their own reckless right, in the name of their clever name will take forcibly. true among my deliberately chase, the wind will become a flying debris Zhang, secular I has become terrifying.
was kitsch, lost true, to strengthen their confidence with self.
7, extremely undesirable
often because some people worry excessively, which led to his insanity; some people but because of insensitive, causing their inaction on everything. The former is often painful search for a rational, intelligent too far but because of the decline, stupid is the source of regret anything. which I do not know why regret things, all confusedly life, living and dead no difference.
extremes always tragically failed to find the wisdom of life.
8, not too much care about other people’s evaluation of
a painting is not the evaluation by others, no one is not to be someone else discussion of. If your quiet, some people will blame “Ayutthaya deep”; own if the good conversationalist, someone will blame “rhetoric”; own if the praise others, some people will blame “ulterior motives”; own if the good criticism, some people will fly into a rage, saying that “meddling”.
by looking at someone else’s face, he still live not live with themselves, not confined to self.
9, the more evil the more painful Why can not calm deep
live? key is no time driving the hearts of demons. because the feel evil thought, would not be sensible to restrain myself, and often stupid things that make remorse. because there is no soul in time cleaning the dust those who are weak will fall into the pit from time to time. as always possessed, would make stupid blind eyes into the wrong fork in the road do not know.
bad heart, they distracted to evil.
10, Note that often people do not live too tired
sigh, live Zhen Lei. tired, is the mental pressure; tired, is psychological burdens. tired and not tired is always relative, in order not tired, we must learn to relax; live your relaxation in a Zhang. my heart is weary, people trapped in long-term health; heart tired, make their own lack of energy.
other tired heart, learn to free himself.
11, each person has its own method
live their own pain clearly understand their own sad, their own feelings of happiness. Perhaps the eyes of hell itself, but is another man’s paradise; may own in the eyes of paradise, but it is other people in the eyes of hell. Life is so funny. Do not always doubt Spring in others, the key is their attitude adjustment.
better their lives through the most important, do not climb better than.
12, makes a slave of desire
people always sigh “moths to flame,” people always ridiculed “fish hook\around the tragedy of this desire there? insufficient She Tunxiang people. indulge their own souls will eventually lose true freedom! must always guard against bad desire.
desire of good to bad, can not indulge.
13, take life easy and happy
not blind comparisons with others, their will be leisurely; not to aim too high in life, their joy will be in; not deliberate pursuit of perfection that he would be away from the pain ; not constantly demanding their own, their will to live in comfortable; do not often find fault, their will be easy.
will be too tired to live in pain, contentment.
14, like himself would embrace Life
blindly arrogant self-esteem, is proud ignorance of life, blindly give up on themselves, is the pessimism of his life. understanding of their more difficult than to understand others, like themselves than like others more difficult. have the proper health of psychological self-esteem, face on the setback will be particularly strong performance. is not lost outside the temptation of self, not to deny their own momentary setback. always cool and objective evaluation of their own, often fairly optimistic about the appreciation of their own.
if not even their own love, but also to love others? like yourself.
15, more than seeing the world with good
water is too clear there are no fish, no friends of people to the police. everywhere can not tolerate the faults of others, then everyone becomes ” bad \strengths, the more likely look more lovely.
saints have “one-day provinces,” to mutual tolerance.
16, do not blindly to please others
is impossible to please everyone, is not necessary. to please everyone, equal to offend everyone. deliberately to please others, will only make people tired of. close to other people to nature, “speculative” mentality to change. have time to please, as a down to work, to please other people is always unreliable, their only real effort.
blindly to please others will lose self, to enrich themselves is very important.
17, a done deal would have to let it mature
uncooked rice has been cooked rice go remorse previous behavior, point benefits are not, the only sensible approach is how to properly handle things behind, do not let things worse. poured out of the water is not being paid, and has been carved wooden boat can not restore the original state, that these simple truth, we can calmly deal with legacy issues.
remorse without any benefit, not to take things worse.
18, although the poor psychological material is not down and out
poor in material not terrible, terrible poverty is psychological. poverty often linked with the down and out, people are poor often associated with his ambition. psychology of poverty, the rich will become poor, psychological rich, the poor can become rich. deprivation increases the despair, will soon destroy a person’s body; self-confidence and self-motion at the moment are poor in material, but the good days will soon come.
poor people go rather short, self-improvement.
19, happiness, evil curse Blessed
in temporary gains and losses are carried away Mok, blind drunk in a temporary victory. their must be prepared not to play grown arrogant, complacent. intoxicated with victory, which means stop stop, intoxicated with victory, means the loss of vigilance. life on the road to never relax, just a small victory signs. To win the final victory, if they work hard, work, work.
Mo was a moment of confused too, who laugh at the latest, laughs the most fun.
20, is important to live each day to enrich
too good to the greatest happiness, happiness comes from feeling good every day. worried about tomorrow’s overall risk, the total can erase the shadow of yesterday, How can the lives of today wishful? General comparisons are not comparisons of the total fantasy that can not be achieved, how quiet the mind today? any unrealistic things, are the source of the pain, the biggest killer of life is sorrow and anxiety.
suffering from is not full, enriching life, not cranky.
21, life should be fun recreational activities with the appropriate degree of
can adjust emotions, endless joy is easy to transfer beneficial harm. Matter most are against, the number of poor will change. “Generally Fiat office, that office is sick.” “Chess can be laid off idle, the fire easily tempted. h” blindly Carnival wonderful time is superficiality of life in exchange for the often painful of remorse. wonderful time there is a degree of philosophical life. Queer is not limited to entertainment, involving all aspects of life.
joy is associated with sadness, joy joy would often accompanied by a degree.
22, for a kind of method may be more happy living
when their liking at work extremely everywhere are feeling the wall, whether it is necessary a change of scenery? when their marriage in a very unhappy, always feel are icehouse, have the courage to break through knot? when one has been used to submissive, will stand tall to say “no”? confident, able and self-reliant, able to adjust their living conditions. Colloction
Do not be taken from the message useless to live comfortable is joy Wizard.
23, may wish to temporarily put aside bothering
short life is too bitter, why always live their unhappy. there are problems is normal, do not worry is not normal. If your mood feel good, we might go to the movies, may wish to listen to some music, may wish to sing a song, may wish to make a phone call, may wish to enjoy the sunshine h
prevent trouble mind to hell, first a happy happy .
24, the foundation of pleasure in themselves
generally always the joy of life, their faith in the external affairs, attached to secular identity. all sorts of status value, property, and treatment, reputation and other things as soon as the loss of these is a heavy blow, often lose, their well-being and happiness of the foundation also will destroy. If this is true over their life, then happiness is quite distant from us.
Why should other people to assess own happiness, a good grasp of their own.
25, feeling happy is happy
many people are deliberately pursue the so-called happiness; although some have been, its costs are enormous. Many philosophers have said that happiness is kind of feeling like “Buddha” in you my heart. the feeling of happiness and satisfaction with the decrease, and the human mind, is closely related to psychology. sages say: get the more difficult, deeper love, with happiness , often thought difficult. a person always feel happy, is the greatest tragedy of his own.
Happiness is kind of feeling, I do not know enough, never be happy
26, “take to heart” have a happy mood
“to birth the spirit of the WTO to do the business” and into Confucianism, Taoism, Buddhism and the essence of the famous three, as people more cheerful, open and detached. “weakening” the total and “crazy” word affair, the main crux of the problem also lies into a dead end. “take to heart” total and “intellectual” character-related, mainly due to still take a step backward. Taoist “to retreat,” Lao Tzu ” Road, often by Doing Nothing “is indeed great wisdom in life! taken from the text what Colloction
take things too hard, there is a retreat into, resilient.
27, worry that with more people against themselves
worry, worry more and more people are happier, more happiness. If the light for the trouble and worry, then worry or objective, and no sign of abating, on the contrary, as troubled chain reaction, mood increasingly heavy, more and more upset. If their continued suffering for the sake of change “to do his party, complaining line” mentality, we can obtain their own happiness.
time is also wasted in trouble, and laughter of life.
28, own treatment for pain, suffering themselves do not expect other people to heal
own pain, only to convince themselves their own, only themselves so they figured out, can completely cure heart disease. frustration, failure, misery, suffering is h deeper understanding of life is more understanding of the meaning of life the only way. only to conquer their own people, have the power to conquer all.
heal the pain of a heart, it means to spiritual sublimation of time, Since the strong winner.
29, must not despair
Accidents will happen, people have always happens, his life is a miracle not sick, then the common ailments, is very normal. Even his illness, and had met to the charlatan, the suspected ill, lose, and disease did not take away his life, intimidation reverse their moment and half dead. The disease not only optimistic but also cautious and must not Ting Feng is the rain.
people eat whole grains, can there not sick truth. are neither threaten their own, do not pigeon-holing.
30, life there is always something
Qing Shi Zhenlin Unfortunately, in “Sketches of Western Qing\things: Young no teacher, no long good friend, Zhuang no charity, so old no name. “” A poor person who unfortunately two: sleep for the sake of the column bearing surface, the knee should reach for the glory of Health. “” Unfortunately, rich people by 2: Pro disheartened the righteous cause of the stingy, greedy load heavy defeat. “” Unfortunately, those three wise men: jump ridiculed proposed that the thin, since the prize that the arrogance hyun, Huai indignant that the manic, “” Knight of people Unfortunately, those three: to help people get fierce storm names, command were defeated by the Pan-money names, Na Yong-off was indiscriminate name. “taken from the message Daquan network
can check your unfortunate thing, unfortunately, always inevitable. < br> 31, “down” have a good mood
the burden of heart, there is too much trouble. see what what love, what to see what can not trouble? timely clean heart, do not let soul the dust was too thick plot. to know that life is short, what can not view the. Unfortunately, that is: not all people understand.
troubling thing to give up, pack light the road.
32, more reason to act less impulsively
things can not be just their feelings, doing more can not be just my feelings, impulsively there must be trouble. Sometimes their perception is wrong, do not imagine such a simple idea always easy to confuse people. Buzhi Yu fiddle around with things rationally, reason things will not be a big mistake, the only way to make their own rational regret. Remember: everything can not be too impulsive!
not only thinks is more, think can not regret.
33, silence can save a lot of headaches
more when their endless time, their will be exposed the folly of Vietnam. The more the time when their ears, their wisdom, the more will be happy growth. listen is to take people to make up our own recipe for short; listen to both sides is communication, respect each other’s bridge; to listen to set aside the error, away from the remorse of magic. to refrain from good words to argue that their own ability, Accidentally hurt someone else may be the self-esteem, perhaps unwittingly laying the seeds of misfortune. taken from the message Daquan network
learn to listen is the greatest wisdom, do not always rattle.
34, only trust people can rest assured that contacts
not deal with the rogue, otherwise, would be no peace every day. can not deal with the duplicity of the people, otherwise, the time to guard against the risk of being betrayed. can not be dealing with people with no credit, or at any time be get into trouble themselves. can not deal with the harsh and cruel people, or he may grab their lives. can not deal with the notorious people, otherwise it will always tarnish their reputation.
not a person can contact, and careful delivery friends.
35, does not love to learn more
stupid smart people are always humble, studious, always ask questions, the more the better; stupid people are always proud to show the world, to the mouth on behalf of the heart, constantly training people. smart people learn to grow, In the wisdom to enjoy life, but also in life to learn life; stupid people in ignorance in the weak and clumsy in trouble in life, never take the initiative to learn from experience. Colloction
taken from the text a good smart people to learn, listen more learning mentors.
36, less refined people, more refined things all day pondering
own people, how tired! leave much time for pondering some of the problems, how good! nature and number of issues that we need to explore, but life is so short decades. Successful people always stare at the career to look for the spark of wisdom shine at work; failure always consumed in the silly “personnel” , always caught in “rivalry” quagmire. Do not spend time on personnel disputes, both pains and there is no output.
personnel disputes, we should trivialize, thought to be used the right path.
37, honesty-based trust is important
honest life of the country, established the root of things. It is said that a gentleman Yang Xin Cheng Mo on. Some people say, not as clever pseudo-humble sincerity. It was also that were sincere and moving, it is also sincere standing. Honesty is the self-confidence, generosity and strength of the crystal, selfless people naturally magnanimous and above-board. Honesty is the personality of the minimum standards of honest people can be trusted, can be entrusted with responsibility. deception is the greatest enemy of honest, to guard against all kinds of false “honesty”.
hypocritical things do not last long, life is good or honest.
38, strict law and lenient towards others already < br> personality charm has come from the strict law. self-disciplined person who can win a good reputation. Successful people are always Let it be, strict demands on themselves; failure is always on strict requirements, let it be. laissez-faire itself demanding people, they often lead to hate others, to become isolated. ask others to do so, you must do. behind closed doors have always thought of before, to continue to progress. more tolerant people, will be able to return for good faith and friendship.
strict requirements on their own, they are victims of their own to relax.
39, followed interpersonal 10
not often unsolicited, and endless; do not always bother with a ringing tone, regardless of the time; do not always give others more trouble; unless the occasional emergency, not to mention a matter of money; others do not have any requirements; do not use critical eye to look at each other; good tolerant people, can not ask too much; a little distance from the produce beauty; myself not to casually dependent on others.
others both know each other, but also tolerance, hedge between keeps friendship.
40, learn to get along with people equal contempt
neither exceptionally anyone, and do not respect no reason to anyone. because they despise each other, each other in their own eyes, would have been resigned to worthless, offensive or insulting their own people will. because their respect for each other, they forget each other’s defects, and generates its excessive dependence thinking, their wisdom will be lost. Colloction
taken from the message irrationally low and high look at the others look stupid and equal coexistence.
41, proudly carried away frustrated not drooling
not living in good times need to be careful, otherwise it Queer. easily carried away when he pleases, a little carried away do not know what his last name, so evil and evil will be advantage of the opportunity infiltration. in bad times and be very patient, or easy to die early. frustrated life When easy gaffe, a gaffe not know their own future, so negative and despair will be advantage of the opportunity infiltration.
They do not take life ebb and flow, to keep his heart.
42, others to grace always keep in mind
short-sighted “ungrateful” crisis everywhere for help, who then do not show up. ask for help when pledged to succeed after the abuses. that the most despised people. “ungrateful” to a friend sad “ungrateful” is the quick success of the performance. “ungrateful” only benefit from the time, but will never lose the trust of people.
avoid burning bridges burning bridges, would cut off their escape route.
43,herve leger on sale, not to mention excessiveness
words must be left open, not to the words “dead.” things to say never, there will be no room for maneuver. once into the language of the “impasse\conceivable. speaking of art is more than people trapped. were the first words said in a fit of anger to refrain from angry words are actually nonsense, calm after Firelight will have many regret.
think to say, not to mention absolutely Love it.
44, should be good to eliminate misunderstanding
gullible the media is misunderstanding, suspicion is a misunderstanding of the soil. pimple always in mind when it will be relaxed and happy mood? Once the formation of a misunderstanding, we must be analyzed correctly was not to narrow prejudice, arbitrariness. to obtain a frank understanding of the heart to friendship to communicate with each other. The best is face to face communication.
Do not let more and more misunderstanding, good at resolving.
45 can not ignore the others are often overlooked
alone product. ignore others, also susceptible to other people ignore. to refrain from a proud attitude, arrogant, do whatever they like, will disgusting. character the arrogant people who also easily discarded. Do not intentionally avoiding other people, do not deliberately close to the others, go with the seasons.
attention to others, appreciate others Do not be too aloof.
46,
respect for others and respect others, respect for their equal. everyone has to respect people between. good at finding other people’s strengths, they will respect others. learn to respect others, we must first learn the role of replacement. respect for others, but also a social lubricant. do not respect other people, equivalent to isolate themselves. respect for others, must be true real meaning. respect for others, reflected in language and action, the latter is more important than the former; mutual respect, to make life full of laughter.
respect earned a good reputation and respect is golden.
47, the take on the care taken everything on the house
want, often not everything. Human life is limited, energy is limited, people in different environments, different capabilities, all determine the choice of standard. the taking, without hesitation, courage; the house, there is no dull pain, not pity. any hesitate act, can only increase the psychological burden of being invisible to increase their own stumbling block.
better able to learn to give up possession, traveling light.
48, Huaikang compassion
want sympathy is human nature, in particular, is for the weak. happy sympathy is a virtue, especially in strong terms. sympathy for a person in distress, out of the warm friendship of hand, given its selfless help, but also pay attention to the skills and methods of sympathy, without prejudice to each other’s dignity, promote their escape embarrassment, pick ourselves up.
good people Huaikang compassion, charity was good.
49 , who often reflect his
non-saints, practice makes no before, when the day and the three provinces. always think our own too, is conducive to rapid progress. often reflect good at summing up, help Yangchangbuduan. benefit from self-reflection , the reflection of maturity. introspection and self-blame are two different things, reflect not blame themselves, but to turn over a new leaf.
reflect on his many and less demeaning others, more reflection and less self-blame.
50, do not talk too much requirements
ask a request, do our best; mentioned two requirements, reluctantly agreed to; mentioned three requirements in mind unpleasant; mentioned four requirements, excitedly turned hostile; mentioned five requirements, sparring; provide six requirements physical and mental harm. put too many demands, one can only boring. less put unreasonable demands. ask yourself: ask others to lot, but it is what it did for the other?
put demands more annoying than to seek alternatives to the requirements.
51, change the color of life, only his state of mind
different colors of life will be different. No matter what life in the state, if his optimistic, cheerful, highly motivated, sincere blessings to learning, then life will become vivid and colorful. if their pessimism, depression, negative and backward, hypocrites, doing nothing, then life will become dark, miserable. state of mind is the kind of variables, transport small duck, life palette on the happiness of their own hands.
if Xinrusihui, how to live in the heart, a good attitude towards life 也好.
52, distance is also a U.S.
hedge between keeps friendship . mind requires a certain distance, and social relations have a sense of proportion. collision is too violent, prone to cracks, feeling too strong, the mind easily fever. may be losing close friends, there is a vague feeling of distance. from the United States not burning each other’s mind, from the United States to increase the friendship between the two sides, from the United States is a long-term U.S..
appropriate distance, rather than pro-induced thinning.
53, importantly, adaptable to what
mountain, what songs, where to do, to what life what the environment, everything comes naturally. individuals are always small, and adapt the most important. adaptable, state of mind is peace. own little sense of loss, their rarely complain of psychological and face reality, is the highest level of ongoing efforts.
complaining will only lead to suffering, survival of the fittest.
54, good at saying “no”
life, there are too many do say “no\”No\; no “people traveling light. to say” no “sometimes the sincere expression.
promise too much, life is self-interference, can not be achieved, do not do.
55, blind patient undesirable
blind patient, means the loss of principle; blind patient, mean no personality; blind patient, means a sign of weakness; blind patient, means facing the risk of advancing step by step; blind patient, mean into the dead end. sometimes stand up, struggling to resist better, insatiable is a fool’s trick often used repeatedly patience thus encourage their arrogance. that can act, to the point of severe also had to do this!
against further abuse by the slap in the face, tolerance is not necessarily a good thing.
56, must keep in mind the “three sentences”
“Who is the world’s most intelligent? is that the people who man-made divisions. the world who is the richest? is on what they have satisfied the people. the world who is the most powerful? is that good at restraint themselves. “artificial division worship, contentment, restraint in their desire to make his life will benefit. every day to remind themselves do not?
learn the wisdom of life, stupid not to learn from.
57, Unfortunately, there is also a U.S.
regret is normal. no regrets in life is confused life. no regrets the joy of life means nothing, no regrets in life also can not feel happy. the greater the desire of people, unfortunately the more people desire smaller, less regret. there is regret and stated that there have been efforts to pursue. For Unfortunately, the analysis must be objective, because of excessive greed and regret is sad for a little bit small and regret all day is not taken.
smile on the life of regret, a regret in life is extremely normal.
58 , fear is having no skills
“One day a monk to do, hit one of the three,” and this goof will ultimately harm themselves. procrastinate, feel-good tolerated. no job skills will thwarted at every turn, no job skills impoverished people will sooner or later, there is no superior vocational skills can not into big business. the market economy is the core of competition, the size depends on the strength of their superb skills availability. constantly update their knowledge, skills, he will make a strong life persons.
as have excellent job skills, no skills panic.
59, disadvantage is not necessarily a blessing
lose things often happen, but firmly believe that life is always relative fair. If your Smart everywhere, always ready to calculating others love to account for other people’s cheap, in fact, the biggest disadvantage is their own. why Minutes calculate gains and losses, more giving, less request. suffer will bring them fame, and would love to take advantage of discredited.
everywhere love to take advantage, only to lose their own, many people ruin their reputation failure.
60, no man light a man if he did not slander
any order, then the others will not look down; and once they are a little talent, and they do something, then people will defamation, slander. if they know the truth of life, but also struggling among you in trouble? so bent on their own strenuous efforts, the progress and access to achievements, and then will not other people’s slanderous and painful.
inaction promising change, promising more as bent on fighting.
61, many people do not depreciate their own self-
If you want to be happy, we should tolerance , If you want to find their own trouble, as long as the harm to others. life troubles, many have not forgive people because I am afraid. blindly banished people, everywhere is Jing-day spike,herve leger bandage dress, single-minded harm, is constantly dark Yin Yu. often responsible for himself, where not day day Shun Yao, and lenient towards others, is constantly on wind Ji. progress and success in life, from deep self-reflection; life setbacks and failures, from malicious derogatory. “longer than the self, short on responsibility man “is the secret of life.
Stinger people with damage to the assault, will also hurt themselves with good eyes to see the world.
62, often due praise
their praise of a good, to give people the warm sun. myself a casual praise, to give people an unforgettable impression. your a sincere appreciation to be a ray of warm spring breeze blowing as people. own an elegant compliment, can bring the confidence of others and hope. Everyone wants praise from others,herve leger dress sale, in fact, give praise easily.
Multi-hearted appreciation and recognition to others, everyone hope that other people appreciate.
63, “I” word take the lead not the
trouble talking to people, to discuss both their love and happy, it is best to talk to each other as each other’s affairs information, and to recruit their boredom, the best title of its own affairs. EQ the low- always the “I” word on the front; people with high emotional intelligence, always “you” word on the front. what the former and which later, another dislocation, the effect is quite different. If his words are always “I” as the center, then the result is often boring and disgusting. If his words are always “you” as a precondition, the result often make people feel good, good impression constantly.
conversation should be the theme of many affairs of others, and more respect for other people.
64, put forward their views to choose a good time to
Youkouwuxin, the speed of light Figure tongue, there is no brain “consciousness” and obsessed with blind vent, which is itself stupid or naive? to express their views, focusing on joyful acceptance. he did not choose the timing for comments, counterproductive, often are well-intentioned but not well reported! If the opportunity to choose, proper expression, you can bring effective and efficient.
say anything to go through the brain to think rather than when the views can be provided.
65, avoid too sharp
blame people if they want to use harsh language to vent his anger in mind, then try the best to put it differently. sharp rebuke not only can not change each other’s views, so they will hate each other is the brand right now. While the other wrong, but because of hurt feelings, it will ruin the original atmosphere of a normal apology. each individuals have a strong self-esteem, when blame and a sword pierced the poor self-esteem, the resistance will be as emotional as impinge upon the flood.
learn to suppress their emotions and guard against loose lips.
66 learn to listen to
listening is the best communication skills, listening is a polite and sincere performance. listen to the two sides talk more harmonious, and to shorten the distance between mind and trust increase. and more to listen to a full understanding of …
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